‘The Real World: Go Big or Go Home’ finale review: CeeJai’ versus Jenna, round 1 billion
Tonight, a whole season of racial tension on “The Real World” came to a head, and to a certain extent, the producers are really the people to blame. They had to know to a certain extent what Jenna was like going into this season, and must have thought in some way that this experience would have reformed her. That didn’t happen, and when they started seeing a pattern of offensive behavior, they should have stepped in and stopped it rather than allowing it to continue.
As a result, we saw the most violent moment of the season as CeeJai’ punched Jenna hard in the face in a confrontation stemming from an incredibly racist thing Jenna’s friend said during a phone call. This was far from the first incident, since Jenna herself said many different offensive things before that.
Let’s pretend for a minute that Jenna’s argument is valid (which is not), and that she is guilty of nothing because her friend said the comment. She still laughed after it was said, and clearly thought it was funny and not in the least bit a problem. Therefore, her reaction associated herself with that comment in an unflattering light. She didn’t correct the comment, or even try to act like it was wrong until later.
Physical violence is ultimately not the answer, so we’re not going to say CeeJai’ was right to resort to it; yet, at the same time, we cannot speak for her situation or where she comes from or the feeling in the house where you cannot escape from it. We understand that there had to be rage in her at that point, so we can do our best to sympathize with her. Jenna’s comments and behavior have been horrible, and we still think her friend is getting off easy for not even having her face shown on TV.
As a result of the fight, CeeJai’ and Jenna were both put into hotels for the night, and the fact that the entire house sided with CeeJai’ spoke volumes. Eventually producers visited her and made it clear that they were sending both of them home early, and ultimately they didn’t have a choice. They’re liable for everything that happens there, and they cannot run that risk.
Now, let’s get back to the producers once more. We figure that in keeping Jenna in there for as long as they did, they hoped to create some sort of dialogue and show that racism is still alive in America. However, maybe their ambition / desire for drama was too high, since all this really amounted to was a pretty miserable, depressing hour where we saw someone being pushed to their limits because of the horrifying behavior of someone else. In turn, it’s led to more nastiness that we’ve seen on social media already.
Hopefully, this is the last time we ever have to mention Jenna in context of a TV show ever, since she may be one of our most-loathed reality TV personalities of all time.
The only thing following all of this chaos that was really compelling at all (and not in a good way) was seeing Dylan try to course-correct by proclaiming that he had a “master plan” to “break” people, and that is precisely what he did with Jenna. Right…
Beyond that, everyone said goodbye to the house in a final few minutes that was bright and a little more cheery, but it definitely didn’t make up for how we got there. Grade: D-.
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TT
May 31, 2016 @ 3:34 am
As a black woman I am truly embarrassed by CJ’s actions. She was supposed to be a strong, highly educated black woman. She allowed a backwoods, backward, ignorant girl, who has nothing and is irrelevant, to get the best of her. Cj- you let MTV set you up to be everything that America expects us to be. I would never have wasted so much energy or my experience on someone like that. CJ spoke so much about all of the things she represented as a black woman, well you don’t represent me because I would never have let a person like that make me act outside of my character.
Charla
June 24, 2016 @ 10:20 am
It’s weird that I’ve never heard white people say they are ashamed to be white when white people do something. Why are you so quick to throw you own demographic under the bus over something that doesn’t affect your life? Sad.
FireStarter
May 29, 2016 @ 8:15 pm
Ceejai was pathetic on the last episode. I liked her up until that point. To run up on someone who is sitting down and punch them in the face is hardly better than a sucker punch. Furthermore, Ceejai was practically inciting the madness. Telling Jenna to watch how she speaks for raising her voice so someone else can hear her. She was trying to create an environment where she felt justified in reducing herself to her primal urges. Ultimately, she hit Jenna for something someone else said, which basically makes her exactly what Jenna has called her the whole time. Way to live up to your stereotype Ceejai. Maybe next time you can learn to solve your problems like an adult. Your fists are for pounding beers, not faces. Jenna, while racist, can say what she wants, that’s her right. But to assault someone like that is going too far. Don’t understand all the support for Ceejai and her violent ways.
Chris was pretty ridiculous too. Jenna is soooo ignorant because she’s disgusted by anal sex. She doesn’t have to like what you do dude. And then he goes off about wanting to spit in her face, etc. Poster boy for being accepting of others. Guess he thought that was a one way street.
Toni T Thomas
May 30, 2016 @ 8:23 pm
Your an dumbass too you must be Jenna’s older sister.
FireStarter
November 22, 2016 @ 12:36 am
Might want to work on your English and grammar before you try to call someone dumb. Did you pass 4th grade with a D this past year?
Toni T Thomas
January 5, 2017 @ 10:49 pm
So, you’re saying I’ve got a 4th education because of a comma? Like I said in the previous post, you’re a dumbass, you must be Jenna’s older SISTER.
Charla
June 24, 2016 @ 10:24 am
Sounds like you ignore the facts that Jenna kept calling her out, and then wants to act surprised when it actually happened. Classic strategy for a person who is all mouth and no fight. No, Jenna didn’t make the statement, but by laughing and encouraging it in, that made her a participant. Jenna could have diffused the situation by checking her own friend. So don’t try to make it seem like Jenna was innocent at all. The episode before, she put her hands on Ceejai and said she will go “country crazy.”
SumKandi
May 29, 2016 @ 4:13 am
Jenna deserved to get punched waaaaay before she did. CJ should have kicked her in the cooter when she ran up the first time.
FireStarter
May 29, 2016 @ 8:23 pm
Ceejai should have just left the whole situation alone instead of searching for an excuse to devolve into violence.
C clay
May 27, 2016 @ 4:53 am
No way ! Jenna should sue MTV. I think it was horrible how the house bullied her. If any other person was treated this way – people would go crazy !!! Because she is a southern white petite girl , I guess it’s ok. When she yelled that that guy was gone, when there was a phone call for him. And that was turned into her being racist? This was the grossest bunch of real worlders ever! They had a gang mentality – the girl couldn’t change! Why would she want to see the perspective of people who are bullies?
Shalon
May 28, 2016 @ 8:34 pm
Jenna got what she deserved. And she LITERALLY asked for it! Does “either stfu or come punch me in the face” ring any bells? She was Billy bad a$$ all season talking about going “crazy country” on and wanting to shoot people. Well guess what? Her a$$ couldn t cash the check her mouth wrote. She’s LUCKY Ceejai didn’t beat the breaks off of her. One shouldn’t talk so much $hit, when ones overbite is so prominent. Easy target. Carry on.
Barry B
May 29, 2016 @ 11:38 am
AGREED !
FireStarter
May 29, 2016 @ 8:19 pm
Ceejai was too panzy to fight her for real. She had to jump on her while she was sitting down unable to defend herself. Ceejai was just pathetic and looking for an excuse on that last episode. Even when Jenna was staying home while everyone else was out, Ceejai still couldn’t do anything but talk s**t about her.
kittengocrazy
June 3, 2016 @ 2:17 am
lol I think people forgot that Jenna put her hands on Ceejai FIRST in the first fight. People can’t get mad that Ceejai started this one when Jenna started the other.
dfd
May 27, 2016 @ 4:21 am
Preach. That was uncomfortable watching CJ being pushed to her limit. Seeing her cry and apologize immediately afterwards made me emotional.