‘Downton Abbey’ season 3 finale review (PBS): Talking Dan Stevens’ [spoiler]
(Warning: If you have not watched the conclusion of “Downton Abbey” season 3 on PBS Sunday night, stop reading now. Otherwise, you will be both spoiled and very unhappy.)
After weeks of waiting, America finally knows what has caused British fans of the series to be upset to the point of being on the verge of tears: despite becoming a mom for the first time at the end of the episode, Lady Mary is going to be finding out some bad news rather soon: her husband Matthew got in a car accident on the way home to inform the family, and he is no longer among the living.
The death of Dan Stevens’ character is a huge moment that will change the series forever, as Mary will have to try and pick up the pieces of her life with a new child in tow. But why did it have to happen? This is what we are going to focus the rest of this article on. (You can read our full review of this episode over here, as we covered it when it first aired in Britain.)
It was early on during season 3 when Stevens realized that he was interested in moving on from the show, and he was quick to inform creator and writer Julian Fellowes of his decision. Fellowes remained interested for some time in trying to keep the actor on board, and even offered him the opportunity to change the ending of this episode at the last minute if he wanted to come back in some capacity.
While some may be angry at Stevens for his decision to do other things, there is no doubt that he is a busy man. The actor has been on “The Heiress” on Broadway for the past several months alongside Jessica Chastain, and he also is the Editor-at-Large for The Junket. It’s sad to see him go, but at least he informed the creator of the show long enough in advance for there to be an end to his character’s story that did not involve him being suspiciously absent when season 4 picks up.
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What is your take on the finale at the moment, and are you upset at Stevens at all over his decision to leave? If you want to check out some more scoop on what is coming up for Mary next on the show, you can do so by visiting the story here.
Photo: ITV / PBS
puffytaco
March 1, 2013 @ 2:02 am
after letting my future hinge on the outcome, glad to say say that my loved ones are no longer in the fire of discontent. the series has reached a new level, and i in turn accept the consequences. my lovely wife will be unavailible for random couplings. in turn i must present myself some new adventures. as long as the audio is on low, i will permit a touch of heated palm.
Kyla Stewart
February 27, 2013 @ 12:07 am
For a long time, I was convinced that Julian Fellows was an absolute genius(still do). I dislike anything related British media and for me to be watching a show like this takes a phenomenal plot. Of course happy endings aren’t always the best endings but when Matthew died I was terribly disappointed. Not because I liked his character (I do) but because the show started to feel like a tragic Shakespeare play(hamlet probably). Now that I know that it’s not Mr. Fellows’ fault, I will stay angry at Stevens. There really was no other way to dismiss him from the show without letting his character die. Very disappointing, too MUCH sadness for the family. Season four must be so fantastic that it makes up for this. I like Mary too and I don’t like to see her hurt. :-(
Chris
February 26, 2013 @ 12:58 pm
Boo to Dan Stevens. I must say that I was at first upset with Fellows, but realize he indeed had no choice.
At the point in the final episode when Matthew is driving and smiling and then the camera turns to the on-coming truck, I shut off the telly. “They are going to bloody well kill him off” I shouted to the TV! I shut it off at that moment and never watched that actual scene. It’s over for me; no more Downton. Time to get hooked on something new….
Patty R
February 23, 2013 @ 11:41 pm
Such a sad ending to Season 3. I am very sad to see Matthew go. I loved where this was going with the three men learning to forge a new era for Downton. I agree with some of the people, rather than kill him off, couldn’t he just be replaced with another actor? He and Lord Grantham were such a pair… and Branson becoming one of them. Writers…if you are reading these comments… can’t you think about bringing his character back? ;-). But, I will continue to watch… and for those of you who say it is too much like a soap opera….uhhhh…what did you call it up to this point??
Mary R.
February 23, 2013 @ 1:20 pm
The only one to blame for Dan Stevens leaving Downton Abbey is DAN STEVENS. He now thinks he can do so much better. Well good luck! At first, I was mad at the series for writing him off, but investigating further I soon discovered it was Dan who insisted on leaving the show to try other things. So please, don’t everyone rush out just yet. Hopefully, the producers will find a better beau for Lady Mary, one who is as talented as Dan Stevens, but not as “full of himself.”
Anonymous
February 23, 2013 @ 12:29 am
Sad to see Matthew gone, though I’m not as devastated by his death as I am by Sibyl’s, although everyone acted superbly for her final episode.
I’m still going to watch, but I do sincerely hope that Fellowes and the cast knows that they’re walking a very fine line. Lily James needs to establish Lady Rose as a character to be cared about, and fast. The same is true for whoever plays Mary’s new love interest.
Ultimately, I think, these new characters are not necessary – yet. I hope I come to appreciate them as much as I appreciated Matthew and Sibyl.
done
February 22, 2013 @ 10:02 pm
Killing him was poor writing. They could have
1. sent him abroad on a diplomatic/spy mission
2. sent him to america to be lost at sea/ in the wild west
3. sent him abroad and rendered him too ill to return home in a timely fashion.
Any of these options would have covered at least 2 seasons of absence with the option of return.
the choice they made was unimaginative and it’s timing, cruel.
Margo
February 22, 2013 @ 8:27 am
I am disgusted with the writers; we have been watching this show fervently all 3 seasons and felt finally there was a show on TV that had merit and intelligence worthy; so rare these days of garbage cable. A modernized, If not a bit more soapy ‘Upstairs Downstairs”. The show has now been ruined thanks to that ridiculous, cheap way out ending! Cheated of my time spent watching 3 full seasons to have it end like this! Stupid and unrealistic and trashy ending. The writers have ruined Downton, and should be fired. What a waste of viewer’s time to tune in faithfully for 3 entire seasons and then the last 5 minutes destroy it to trashy soap opera level. Way to go!
G J
February 21, 2013 @ 7:37 pm
I think I read somewhere in one of the interviews with Julian Fellows that he said the Matthew character could not last too much longer because he was too nice…What?….Does every character on TV have to be a louse?..How refreshing it was to see a husband who was crazy in love with his wife..especially Matthew to Mary who has a tendency to be stuffy and Edwardian at times..but Matthew knew how to make her smile and come on to his way of thinking after he looked at her with those big blue eyes and sweet smile….And he did stand up to Lord Grantham at the end when it came to the survival of Downton…I guess that was not rotten enough…I almost hate to imagine who is the next victim on the Downton list…Or can we say WE are the victims..after being hooked on what was a terrific show…and then having the rug pulled out from under our feet….
I look at Matthew with different eyes now…having separated the character from the real person…so sad Daniel that you didn’t think this through a little further…
Mary Ellen
February 20, 2013 @ 7:24 pm
I can see from all the negative comments everyone is upset about the ending and killing off Matthew. I feel betrayed and manipulated.
Not sure of I will tune in next season. Mr. Fellows may have under estimated his viewers loyalty given his extreme use of death as a vehicle of his fiction. He may not recover.
Leni
February 20, 2013 @ 5:33 pm
I find it unbelievable that the Producers in general, Mr. Fellowes in particular, did not have the actors portraying the main characters under longer contracts. I totally agree that the part should have been recast. The finale was such a disappointment… if it wasn’t for Maggie Smith, I doubt I would consider watching season 4. We all must pray for her continued good health!
Gram
February 20, 2013 @ 2:19 pm
Absolutely devastated……..in agreement that Season 3 was very dark with few bright spots. The death of Matthew ranks up there as one of the all time “downers”.Telling the producers that he was interested in moving on certainly speaks well for Dan Stevens, but he left many a broken heart behind!
Mary
February 19, 2013 @ 7:33 pm
Horrible. They should have replaced the actor. It was the character we loved, not the actor!
Denise Nance
February 19, 2013 @ 2:40 pm
The reasons I fell in love with Downton Abby are numerous. The writing is exquisite, the best, really; the lack of offensive language, the wonderful morality adds too, even with Mary’s scandalous affair, it was so well done. The character driven plots make it easy to fall for each and every one of them, making the death of Matthew so very shocking. I thoroughly enjoyed seeing a loving and happily married couple on a TV series, so very rare these days. White Collar is perhaps the only other show that has moral guidelines and one I wait to tune into each week, with a very short season on that one too. Seeing Mathew dead at the end, my first reaction was Julian is far too great a writer to do that to us, he had to have a reason, and it had to be Dan Steven’s wanting out. It appears to be the case. Poor Julian. He has more invested in this show and the characters than anyone! As any writer can tell you. As far as staying a faithful fan?? I have faith Julian will still surprise us into staying hooked in S. 4. Where ever he chooses to take us I am on board for the ride until the very end. There is absolutely nothing better on, in my opinion than D.A and White Collar. Two wonderfully written and roller-coaster rides that I miss terribly when off season. Congrats to all of the Downton people for the great ride so far.
ike
February 19, 2013 @ 2:20 pm
What a downer, now the whole show is at risk.
ScarCon
February 19, 2013 @ 1:24 pm
Mathew’s death sickened me. I went into a full out sob. Daniel Stevens has made a terrible decision in regards to his career. “The Heiress” on Broadway?! Are you serious?! Mr. Stevens you hit the jackpot and it is never coming again. Why you couldn’t work it out and put in cameo appearences next season is beyond me. PLEASE rethink it so Matthew can by some miracle recover – much like he did from his war injuries. The relationship between M & M is the future of Downton. The ending was unnecessary and unfair and down right cruel.
Lori
February 18, 2013 @ 11:16 pm
Guys… this show is brilliant in just about every way. After watching the Season 3 finale, however, I have to say there’s too much heartbreak for me be back next season. The tragic death of one young person is hard enough (Sybil). But TWO? Both brand new parents in happy marriages? Really? In addition, the character of Matthew is central to the show. He’s the glue connecting most all the other characters in the drama. I can’t imagine Downton Abbey without Matthew nor do I want to. But thanks for a wonderfully entertaining run!
Patricia
February 18, 2013 @ 11:12 pm
I was shocked by the ending, but also simultaneously realized that it was so GOOD too. I cannot imagine NOT watching Downton Abbey next season. Back in those days, people’s lives were tragic. People died early, no antibiotics, they just succumbed to disease. This was not an unrealistic turn of events. I will watch with great interest how Lady Mary copes and how her family rallies round her and her child, who is nameless. It will be interesting to see the turn her personality takes. Will she become even more spiteful and cruel, or will motherhood soften her and she will remain Matthew’s Mary. Then I think of Mrs. Crawley, and how her heart will be broken.
Sharon
February 18, 2013 @ 10:42 pm
I feel a bit silly getting so hooked on a TV show, when there is so much actual tragedy in the world that needs our attention and energy. But that’s why we get hooked on a TV show. We need an escape from the world, and sometimes from our own lives, for an hour or two a week. I’m a big supporter of PBS. Always have been, always will be. But the Season 3 finale was so shocking and horrifying, to just end it and immediately begin pushing the “DA” DVD set on us was unbelievably insensitive. I was in shock. And suddenly it was the big sell. I know PBS needs money. I know it’s been under attack. My partner and I donated our car to our local PBS affiliate in December. But really. What we needed after that episode was a group therapy session! I’ve been fighting climate change, big coal and dirty money in elections, among other things. I didn’t need this. I don’t know Dan Stevens or the possible subtleties of why he felt he had to leave the program. But I wish we could have been spared this.
Sue
February 18, 2013 @ 10:29 pm
Very disappointed in the Season 3 finale. Can’t stop thinking about it. I watched all of Season 1 and 2 on Amazon Instant Video in about 1 week, and was just totally hooked on the characters, the cinematography, the costumes, the story lines, the humor, the romance, all of it. The ending was a complete letdown and a sad, bad way to leave entranced viewers. I am not sure I will be as in love with the show, and may not even watch it. Does every series on TV now have to have a huge surprise, splashy, chilling ending?
Libby
February 18, 2013 @ 10:28 pm
I am furious with the show and the actor for choosing to leave. It was a deplorable ending that came out of nowhere and I feel completely robbed.
Many of these actors grew to fame with DA and I think Stevens showed total disregard for his fans by leaving. The show could have easily had him get badly hurt, be in a recovering hospital and make cameo appearances — or have to be away on DA business and show up every now and then.
Honestly, this ending makes me never want to watch again, and it makes me not want to follow Stevens’ career.
Even my teenagers said two deaths in one season (of characters we all loved) was too much of a sucker punch to continue.
Lynn
February 18, 2013 @ 8:51 pm
Dan Stevens did a Rob Lowe (see: West Wing) that just about ruined Lowe’s career for years. DA is in production for only a part of the year; surely arrangements could have been made either by Stevens himself or management so he could pursue other opportunities but continue with his critical role. Moreover, no longer can I count on a British drama to be coherent and consistent (think John Thaw as Inspector Morse). If we can lose Matthew, a central character in a show that maybe only has another two years of life, if that, then any character can suddenly disappear. This show already has had way too many Deus Ex Machina contrivances so that it has become just a string of incidents throw together without scarce vision of the ultimate outcome. Well, Dan’s leaving gives me permission to leave as well. I know it’s only a TV show but I and others invested huge amounts of time and emotional investment in these characters. We deserve better.
G J
February 18, 2013 @ 8:08 pm
You know?…So many of us think the same thing…there is not much on TV nowadays that is uplifting…or worth watching….Finally..DA came along…and we were hooked…We became part of the family and they ours…How sad Daniel Stevens couldn’t ‘stick it out’ a little longer..How long will DA run?…sooner or later it will come to an end…and he could have gone out into the world of TV or movies with a strong fan base…I believe he may have shot himself in the foot..As one commentor said..what happened to being loyal to your loyal fans…I really never heard of Dan Stevens before this show..and like a meteor flying through the skies he could easily burn himself out and may already have done that with his refusal to continue with a role that made him so world famous…Now he will be know as the actor who refused to finish his part…Too much emotion in too short amount of time..
Don’t we see so much tragedy on the news every day…It is nice to escape to a place where..even though there is reality of the times in which it is set..but where we don’t have to see a constant barrage of sadness…and that is what is happening with DA…
Sandra
February 18, 2013 @ 7:02 pm
I am heartbroken and crushed that Matthew ( Dan Stevens) will not return Downton Abbey. This is almost too much to bear. We all love Stevens and the Downtown series so much. Stevens was such a key and central character. He will be sorely missed. Bring him back someway please!!! Even if he has to lie in rehab till season 5.
Selena
February 18, 2013 @ 6:43 pm
Thanks a lot Dan Stevens, for ruining Downton Abbey. It was my favorite show ever. Why couldn’t you stay through season 4? The storyline would have been so much better had it been allowed to play out the way Julian Fellowes intended. Seems like most of the fans of DA feel the same way I do. Not sure that I will continue to watch the show now that two of my favorite characters are gone, it just won’t be the same.
Charity
February 18, 2013 @ 6:05 pm
Wow. Two major players gone in one season. That’s disappointing, but the whole series is so well-written that I look forward to Season 4. Not watching anymore would be cutting off my nose to spite my face. Back then deaths were common. They didn’t have the means nor technology to save people as they do now. That’s the nature of the times. I love historical fiction, I love those times, I love England, and I love Downton Abbey. I’ll continue to watch and to collect each season as it’s released and doubt there is anything they can write into it that will kill the series…or the donations to PBS. :D There are plenty of mind-numbing comedies around with happy endings to soothe the naysayers.
A
February 18, 2013 @ 6:03 pm
I’m disappointed, too, and agree with all those who say the character of “Matthew” should not have been killed off just because the actor wanted to leave the show. A replacement could have easily been found — just look at all the talented and eager actors out of work who would have welcomed the job.
As for Dan Stevens, his decision to give up Downton merely to star opposite the wooden Jessica Chastain in The Heiress doesn’t seem like such a good career move at this juncture. Finally, given how short the Downton season is, why couldn’t he do both the TV show and the play?
Daniel
February 18, 2013 @ 5:09 pm
I am with others who can’t believe the ending….so much for being a fan next year. So Dan Stevens thinks he is too big for the show….he won’t succeed better any place else. I agree with most of the fans…..find a Dan Stevens look alike. The fans would be better served by keeping Matthew a live. Shame on Stevens and Fellowes. Can’t there be one good uplifting story in this entertainment world. What a way to sabotage the fans. I bet PBS donations dropped after this one!
Ani
February 18, 2013 @ 4:18 pm
This was a terrible ending… I am so disappointed in this ending. It was just such a novela thing to do. Why couldn’t they just replace Matthew with another actor? I realize it can be awkward for the audience to adjust to a new face, but we could do it… I think killing off Matthew was a terrible idea.
Molly
February 18, 2013 @ 3:37 pm
I know it’s only a fictional television show and, in the grand scheme of things, this really isn’t a tragedy, but I’m very disappointed in the way this was done. I don’t understand why Dan Stevens couldn’t have been replaced by another actor. I’m sure there are plenty of Dan Stevens look-alikes out there who would be more than happy to take up the role. It wouldn’t be the first time a major character had been replaced by another actor. Matthew was so central to the story, and we do so much prefer happy endings. After all, we watch this to be entertained, not saddened. We can find enough tragedy on our own.
Larry K
February 18, 2013 @ 3:36 pm
Why kill Matthew? Why not send him off in some much more outrageous, fun way that would give the Dowager opportunities to comment.
JER
February 18, 2013 @ 2:22 pm
It was an awful ending…. although I kept saying to my wife “something’s gonna happen” everything seemed too good…. You were left with a feeling of remorse and helplessness…. Then my wife said… now it will be Tom Branson and Mary getting together. I don’t think so. Matthew was so difficult for Mary to get, that I think she stays a single mom… and maybe now, not so hard on her sister Edith. Heck… I was mad that William died!! Sybil was a shock, now this…. I will watch season 4, but Julian Fellowes has to come up with something to make us feel good again. Matthew’s sudden death will occupy my thoughts for weeks to come.
lar&mar
February 18, 2013 @ 12:25 pm
we will miss Matthew – for both is role in being (finally) a faithful husband in a loving marriage that was a wonderful example for the world to see – – and also for his business acumen that seemed to present a wonderful example of the courage, thought and effort required to adapt to a changing world. we will most certainly ‘staytuned’ to see how mr. fellowes resolves the issues to be confronted by the many wonderful characters as the world they have known evolves.
Debbie
February 18, 2013 @ 12:21 pm
Absolutely devastated!! I was hoping some how he was not really dead. I was in denial. After just reading that Dan Stevens wanted to move on, my hopes are gone. It’s good to know Julian Fellowes didn’t want it to end that way because I was upset with him. When fans become this upset over a character you know the series has
done an amazing job of pulling you in and making it real. I will definitely watch Season 4 as there are many others in the series I’m attached to.
Katy
February 18, 2013 @ 12:07 pm
My husband and I are so disappointed with the death of Matthew after Sybil was killed off not long ago. What a sad ending to the show. Why not have Matthew just injured to the point he looks different and bring on another actor who looks and sounds like Dan. Why not kill off some of the trouble making characters off!!!!! I don’t know if we will watch Season 4 or not. Right now we are too upset to think about it.
Pam
February 18, 2013 @ 12:03 pm
Matthew (Dan Stevens) killed himself, not the writers. He will not do well in the USA… Bad decision on his part.
Lucy
February 18, 2013 @ 12:03 pm
It’s a television program with a talented writer. All will be fine. And again, it’s a Television program, not real life. If an actor finds success and moves on to more opportunities then more power to him. It’s his career. Good for him.
Mary
February 18, 2013 @ 11:38 am
Very disappointed he’s gone, I don’t know if I’ll be back for season 4 either.
Jim
February 18, 2013 @ 10:35 am
From the beginning the characters of DA have created a world wide phenomenom that is difficult to harness. What the actors and actresses need to remember is that they come into our homes and become part of our extended families. And like our families there are some that we care for and others that we don’t.
DA is like that with characters that we love to hate and would hate to love.
The writers and producers must be careful not to destroy the story line that fans become involved with. Lady Mary and Mathew were key to the storyline. If you think Mary was hard to date wait untill next year. Her mother is a nothing character and Lady Edith is the ugly duckling that will never be a swan.
Maybe this will be a good opening for Thomas and Robert to bond together.
Lady Violet “Give Em Hell”
Give S4 1 and 2 a chance before you cut them out. They have brilliant writer and a better cast.
T
February 18, 2013 @ 9:38 am
More than anything, I wish that Dan Stevens had remained on the show. I understand his wish to further his career, but he owes his entire success to the show and I feel that he should remain a part of it until the end. I will echo what many of you have said and say that I think the damage done to the series by his death (not originally part of the plot, but enacted only because of the actor’s decision) is irreversible. Now that his character is dead, no one can replace him. I don’t think that viewers will truly open their hearts to a future love interest of Mary’s, because of the centrality of Matthew and Mary’s relationship to the show. Without this fatal twist in the plot, I think the show would have continued well. But adding this to Sybil’s death and the other dramatic events, I think the show won’t continue to succeed as it has to this point.
Allison
February 18, 2013 @ 9:22 am
Shows have been swapping out actors on shows for years until recently. Why not give it a try? The character of ‘Matthew” is more important than the actor. The Mary and Matthew storyline was the main one. Why else was “Levinia’s” death necessary? Why was the unseen “Patrick” never resurrected? Because it was always about M & M.
Susi
February 18, 2013 @ 8:51 am
I will watch Downton Abbey again–at least to see what sort of plot evolves after Matthew’s death–but I will make it a point, Dan Stevens, never to watch you in anything ever again. I could always relate to Matthew’s character, but I find it difficult to relate to someone who had the most fabulous job in acting on two continents and jumped ship. Your action might give one the impression that you didn’t care about who watched your show or who worked with you. Your determination to scratch an itch for supposedly greener pastures has essentially ruined one small pleasure for so many, but that didn’t seem to faze you. There is more to a career than short-term gain, Mr. Stevens. Unfortunately for you, I fear the backlash from this decision will cause to you realize it.
Nancy R. Schoer
February 18, 2013 @ 8:50 am
I agree that Matthew’s death was stunning, shocking, and horribly upsetting…I too was angry at Sybil’s loss and furious when Matthew died…but it is a huge ensemble cast with many remarkable actors, and a wide variety of plot lines. While I’m still angry at Matthew’s (Dan Steven’s) defection, I will be there with bells on for season 4. How can you NOT watch the Earl, the Dowager, Carson, Mrs. Hughes, Mrs. Patmore, Bates and Anna, Isobel, Thomas, Daisy, and the fights between Ladies Mary and Edith? I look forward to more excitement in Season 4!!
Mary
February 18, 2013 @ 8:20 am
Looking back over the first 2 seasons, I thought the romance of Matthew and Mary was the thread that would unite the whole series. After everything they went through before they finally got married, they should have had a long life together. Violet told Matthew, “If you’re going to spend 40 or 50 years with the same woman, be sure she’s the right one.” Mary told her Aunt Rosamund, “He’s very clever. He might be Lord Chancellor some day.” I had envisioned a successful political career for Matthew. It would have been nice if he and Mary had had 4 or 5 children! I will watch Season 4, but it won’t be as much fun. The romance that I don’t understand is Bates and Anna. I like Anna, but I don’t understand why she is so hot for Bates, and I don’t think they add much to the show. I realize that the show is all about Downton Abbey, the estate. The people are just pawns in its preservation. Matthew served his purpose rescuing the estate from financial ruin and fathering a son and heir.
ann holbrooks
February 18, 2013 @ 8:13 am
I love DA, by far the best…the series will go on as long as they have Mary, Granny, and the others… I indeed loved Matthew but if his heart is not there, then God Speed to him.
My husband and I love the series and can hardly wait for Season 4….Yes it broke my heart when Sybil and Matthew died but this makes the show more real.
I would love for Thomas to change and find love with a Lady…
As long as this show is decent and moral, I will watch and love every minute of it…Bravo for Julian, keep writing because we LOVE IT!!
John
February 18, 2013 @ 5:30 am
I thought it would be a good twist to have Mathew and Thomas hook up.
Shannon
February 18, 2013 @ 4:48 am
Upon learning of Dan Stevens’s departure from D.A. several months ago, I had the same disappointed, angry knee-jerk reaction most of you here are having. However, that’s just what it is: a knee-jerk reaction. Once you’ve had a chance to digest Matthew’s death, you’ll probably feel differently about tuning in for season four. The last episode of season three opened up lots of possible new story lines & I, for one, am very excited about the future at Downton. As another person commented: life is fragile and unpredictable. We never know when our time’s up, do we? Folks are killed in auto accidents every day. There’s nothing particularly unusual about it and it’s always terribly tragic for those involved. As for Mr. Stevens’s decision to leave D.A., I am still a bit upset at him. I feel like he’s turned his back on the very series (and its fans) that made him famous. I think that’s what bothers most of us, tho Stevens owes us nothing. If he was feeling burned out, why not have his character be sent abroad next season, take a break, and reevaluate then? Julian Fellowes asked & asked Mr. Stevens to stay, but he simply would not. It’s a shame because we all know the creators of D.A. don’t intend it to go on and on. However, I felt that Stevens’s passion for playing Matthew had dissipated this season and, in the end, I’d rather have a new character who’s passionate about his role than a beloved one who’s only playing it halfheartedly. And truthfully, so would all of you. Just sleep on it; digest it a while. It’ll take time, but eventually I believe you will feel better about it. Thanks for reading! :)
Brenda
February 18, 2013 @ 3:52 am
Life SUCKS and then you DIE
Laurenn
February 18, 2013 @ 3:13 am
Honestly, I think people saying “Oh man, Matthew is dead! Never watching Downton ever again!” are sort of being immature. Yes, I am VERY upset with this development, since Matthew was my darling blue laser-beam eyed boy, but I’ll still watch in the future. I’ve made it through a great many things that kill off some of my favorite characters (Hunger Games trilogy, anyone?) so I think I’ll be able to live through this.
And to be quite honest, I feel like some of you are women who only watched because of Dan Stevens.
Simpson
February 18, 2013 @ 2:50 am
Really dissapointed. Might not continue with the series. Too bad. I expected a strong, considered ending to season 3.
Coyito
February 18, 2013 @ 2:44 am
I always thought the story was more important than the actors that played it. So, why re-write it because a person chose not to renewed his contract? In the old days when that happened, at the beginning of the season we will read something like: the part of Matthew Crawley will be played by so and so. Why not do the same? I truly believe Matthew and Mary are the future of DA. I have faith that a brilliant writer like Mr. Fellowes will surprises us again next season.
Musicmel
February 18, 2013 @ 2:36 am
I cannot believe they killed off Matthew. It is utterly INFURIATING. He let down so many fans! No, he is not essential, but the part where they showed his face was very unnecessary, and I will be having nightmares for weeks. I will be here for the next season, and so will all the people who say they won’t.
Barbara25
February 18, 2013 @ 2:35 am
I thought Season 3 was to be the finale. While I am happy DA will continue (I’ll watch 1st episode and decide then if I’ll watch more)…I’m VERY ANGRY that Season 3 ended the way it did!!! Mr. Stevens’ personal plans could have been managed and achieved in a far more satisfactory way. How selfish and thoughtless of him! I will not support his other endeavors. Could he not have been called to India or the USA on a legal case for a few months??? A predictable car accident? C’mon. Well, I’m relieved we still have Maggie Smith!!! Now THERE’S a character we CANNOT DO WITHOUT! I mourned for days when we lost Sybil. Matthew? I’m angry. I’m sad for the characters of Lady Mary and Tom. I’m angry with writers and Mr. Stevens! VERY DISAPPOINTING.
Randall
February 18, 2013 @ 2:16 am
Perhaps Alex Pettyfer could make a good replacement to play Matthew.
Silvia
February 18, 2013 @ 1:41 am
I hated season 3 finale. Mary and Matthew were the central characters. It’ll be hard to watch without them being together. Horrible finale. I feel quite angry and so disappointed. Too bad. It was my favorite show (was).
Allison
February 18, 2013 @ 12:57 am
How sad that Matthew died but as commented on in other posts he is not the only interesting character. The fact that the actor, Dan Stevens, chose not to return makes me disappointed in him not the show. I would find it quite silly for a “look a like” Matthew anyway. I look forward to season 4 and all the twists and turns. I love this show!
Bonnie Lane
February 18, 2013 @ 12:51 am
I am so upset that Matthew has been killed in the season finale tonight! This is a bad move for Downton Abbey! Too much d eath! I think Mary and Matthew were essential to the story! I thought I was sad when Sybil died, but this is too much! Offer Dan Stevens whatever it takes to come back and finish the series! I don’t really want to watch it without Matthew. Poor Mary. Just too much saddness without Matthew! I fear the show has ruined itself. Can’t they work around Stevens Broadway schedule? Does Matthew have to be dead??????
Kevin M.
February 18, 2013 @ 12:28 am
Why couldn’t Rose have been driving that car instead? She is really annoying!!!!
Racy
February 18, 2013 @ 12:26 am
Can Matthew come back with a distorted face from accident, and another actor replace him?? Please do not kill him…the show will die too.
Tab
February 18, 2013 @ 12:24 am
I am very disappointed! I too would rather have seen a replacement. Too many deaths of young people. I am a bit angry at Dan for not sticking it out one more season with all his castmates. Now he will always be the character that destroyed Abbey. Watching this show used to make me feel good. Not any more. Time to pick a new favorite.
Heather
February 18, 2013 @ 12:18 am
Such touching moments in the final episode–Mr. Carson holding Sybil’s little girl, Thomas Barrow and Jimmy finding compassion for each other–too good to ruin with a shoddy ending. Next season, have Matthew recovering at home, even if it means hiring a different actor.
Donna
February 18, 2013 @ 12:17 am
I rather like the ending. Not that I wanted Matthew dead, but he’s not the most important character in the show, and like it or not life is fragile. There’s all sorts of possibilities for Season 4 and all those who “swore off” the show are just blowing wind….they’ll be back because Julius Fellowes is a brilliant screen writer, the staging and costumes are spectacular and it’s this fanciful world of haves and have-nots, class and service. A world we Americans know so little about. At least in the “Regency era” style…..so we will all wait with great anticipation for next January and Season 4. There’s this Rose character and who knows where we might next see O’Brien (Bombay) just about the time the India crush for independence blows up, and then we have two little toddlers in the Abbey….perhaps one will succumb to polio, then there are all sorts of scenarios open for romance with Tom, Edith, little Daisy, and even Cousin Isobel…so much going on and so little time….and will the household go in receivership now that the businessman is gone? Because we all know that Robert has no money sense…whoo hoo I’m looking foward to Season 4.
Rest in Peace Matthew, life will go on without you
Spz_trader
February 18, 2013 @ 12:15 am
Fairly phucked up way to treat fans. The only world-class show falls victim to the “soap opera” sword.
Peggy
February 18, 2013 @ 12:14 am
Boy, what an ending. I understand Dan Stevens wanted out, but they should have just replaced him, maybe you know, he could have gotten disfigured in car accident and then brought in the new actor. I agree Matthew is what this family needs to bring them all together. First Sybil now Matthew, they are the two most likable Royals, I love the staff though. Can’t wait until Season 4…..
Rublex
February 18, 2013 @ 12:09 am
Watching the show DA with my husband, I saw him cry, so I started crying too.
Please don’t let Mathew die for we no longer know what to do. Where and when is the funeral so we can attend… No, seriously, somewhat rootless ending of Mathew’s character. We did expect better from the creative wing of PBS, since the news people at PBS are utterly useless. Let’s see how you’ll write your way of this one !
Anonymous
February 18, 2013 @ 12:08 am
In America,we will not be watching downton Abbey any more..I and my friends are done done and done. We think it is senseless to kill Mathew after he sees his newborn son.Mr. Dan stevens is a wonderful actor and you could keep him in coma for a little time, while he pursues his other interests and then he could come out of coma and can be part of his family.
Or you could end the show after the wedding of Mary and Mathew and the birth of their son. This is horrid horrid and very horrid. I wish I did not watch the show. What disregard for viewer’s psyche!!! what arrogance.
Tanja
February 18, 2013 @ 12:05 am
Oh, I’ll watch it again–ONLY because I don’t have any British options to choose from. I’ll take almost any British offerings that are presented. Plus, there’s something fun about knowing many others in the country are tuning in at the same time. However, I really haven’t liked the story lines since Matthew stood up from his wheelchair. It’s too contrived, and the whole thing just feels like a very expensively made the soap opera.
Julie
February 17, 2013 @ 11:59 pm
This was a very disappointing ending. There must be an actor who looks like Dan Stevens who can fill the role of Matthew. There is so much heartache in the world that I hoped Downtown characters would continue to find some happiness after the needless death of Sybil. The tension between the characters upstairs and downstairs offers enough drama without having to kill off everyone! Downtown offers a little fantasy for those of us who could never live such a life and that was refreshing. Not sure if I can handle another season.
Alexandria
February 17, 2013 @ 11:52 pm
What an awful ending to season 3. Dan Stevens did not care about his audience and millions of fans when he walked out on the show. He will never has as many followers as he does playing Matthew. And what an awful way to leave fans at the end of a season. Especially after Sybil. I am done and so are most of the fans I know. A shame.
Betty A.
February 17, 2013 @ 11:51 pm
I will watch Downton Abbey as long as it continues to be shown. Its a great show! We will miss Matthew but one character does not make the entire show. Season 3 left many unanswered questions and I can hardly wait for season 4.
Deanna
February 17, 2013 @ 11:51 pm
I am in shock…terrible ending. Why would they do that to fans?
Anonymous
February 17, 2013 @ 11:50 pm
Why would an actor on the best show on tv ever choose to leave? Crazy. Thank you to all the other lovable, wonderful characters who continue to charm and entertaiin us so brilliantly!
Debbie
February 17, 2013 @ 11:48 pm
Matthew was my favorite – Dan Stevens was great. Not sure I will be able to stay as tuned into the show now that he is gone from it. Too much drama. Too unrealistic that so many young people in one family group should die – Lavinia, Sybil, Matthew. It’s starting to seem ludicrous.
Anonymous
February 17, 2013 @ 11:48 pm
So since Matthew predeceased Robert, is his baby still the heir or does the succession squirt off in another direction? Maybe back to melty-face?
Anonymous
February 17, 2013 @ 11:46 pm
I agree with the others. Find a “Matthew” replacement and have him wake up in the hospital. Probably just too late now but I can’t imagine Mary with anyone else. Bummer!!
Mark G
February 17, 2013 @ 11:43 pm
All you “I’ll never watch Downtown Abbey again!!!” whiners know better. You’d all br glued to your sets for Season 4 Ep 1 and you know it!!
Lisa
February 17, 2013 @ 11:42 pm
Have read many comments and articles about Mr. Steven’s reason for leaving. Surely in this day and age, he and his agent could have negotiated a contract so that he could continue on as Matthew Crawley until the story ended. It is a shame that disappointing fans is not as important as pursuing a “career”. Also, would like to comment on those who are posting words of support for Mr. Steven’s departure and likening it to George Clooney’s departure from the show, ER. In a hospital setting, interns and residents will move on. Docs in the hospital, especially in critical care areas, often move on. Patriarchs of a family do not “move on” intentionally. Matthew Crawley’s untimely death–so soon after Sybil’s–is artificial and does make DA “feel” like a soap opera. And to finish on a positive note: THANK YOU to the remaining cast members for continuing to entertain my life and the lives of my friends and family. You have become a source of enjoyment, a topic of conversation, and a story to remember. Good luck to Mr. Stevens and those he employs. He will undoubtedly have many opportunities to reflect on his decision.
Bella
February 17, 2013 @ 11:39 pm
I’m just devastated! Matthew is dead? He seemed like the future of Downton! Why would the creators let this happen. It’s so not fair to play with our emotions like this!! I really don’t care what happens now. I fell in love with Matthew and there’s nothing left to watch as far as I’m concerned.
Erika S.
February 17, 2013 @ 11:38 pm
How can we believe that Mary could ever love anyone else like she loved Matthew? No way!
Grrrrr
February 17, 2013 @ 11:35 pm
This is so disappointing. Couldn’t Dan Stevens stay at least one more season….or half a season??? To have two MAJOR characters to die in one season is terrible and depressing. Like “Michele”, this is also going to disturb me for a few days. Not only that, but to have an excellent series like this one turn all soap opera on us and go down in flames….GRRRRR!!!
Karis
February 17, 2013 @ 11:34 pm
My favorite show EVER but I am as bummed as everyone about Matthew and Sybil. Rose is going to be annoying, just a ditz and I smell trouble with her. DON’T kill off anymore of our characters! Love all of them… even Barrows and Obrien!
Loyal Viewer
February 17, 2013 @ 11:33 pm
I’m 65 years old and the marriage/romance between Matthew and Mary was the highlight of an old woman’s life. What else is on TV for the elders of the world –
NOTHING? I guess I will have to find something else to watch because I’m heart broken. First Sybil and then Matthew – PLEASE give me a break!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tireduvit
February 17, 2013 @ 11:32 pm
Too many people killed off. We had 2 Darrins, why not 2 Matthews? Or let him go to America on business, which would give him a chance to change his mind? I’m really not interested in Edith or Rose. Who is going to straighten out the estate’s finances now? Bad story line now, bad finale. It’s a shame, it was such a good show, now just another soap opera.
Gia Robinson
February 17, 2013 @ 11:27 pm
How could you do such a thing to a loyal viewer. Downton is the only decent series to watch on television. The marriage between Matthew and Mary was the highlight of my watching the show. I have cried for days. Please would you put in a scene like “WHO SHOT JR” and let Matthew live? I’m sure that you can find a handsome blue eyed young man to take his place or else I will be without a show to watch on television – Downton is decent – everything else on TV is garbage.
BikerChicKnits
February 17, 2013 @ 11:25 pm
Convince me that ending was absolutely necessary. Quick and dirty. Shame on who? I’m done.
Creed Holbert
February 17, 2013 @ 11:24 pm
That was a bad Business Move. PBS here in the USA, will lose donors and viewers. Over-the-top, and D U M B. Find a replacement for Dan, and quick!!
Marti
February 17, 2013 @ 11:23 pm
I’m done. I understand that Fellowes hand was forced, but with Sybil gone and the Mary/Matthew dynamic gone, the show has no core left. I could care less what happens to Edith, and the servants, much as I love them, are just background stuff. I guess this new Rose person is supposed to fill the holes, but we have no history with or connection to her. The show is gutted.
I have loved Downton Abbey, but I seriously doubt I will even bother with season 4.
ionlyhavetime
February 17, 2013 @ 11:23 pm
I’m sick!!!! It was bad enough that we lost Sybil. We didn’t need to lose Matthew:( As soon as I saw him driving home I knew something awful was about to happen. Why didn’t the writers replace him with another actor?! The story line between him and Mary was such a special part of this show…..
Anonymous
February 17, 2013 @ 11:21 pm
Couldn’t they have simply replaced Matthew with a different actor. I would rather that!
Drew
February 17, 2013 @ 11:19 pm
Done. There are so many options in life and even more so in television in terms of choice. The momentum the show gained, the number of viewers anxiously waiting for news on the lives of this fictitious family, and then to discover it’s continuously filled with terrible realities is why history books were written with embellishment (i.e. it sucked in the dark ages). Downton will now be recognized in the its industry as well as with its audience as a show that’s not to be revisited.
Kate
February 17, 2013 @ 11:16 pm
Twice in one season?! They’re going all Game of Thrones (killing everyone you like) with this tv show!
Whenever someone is really happy on this show, I’m immediately suspicious because I know it can’t last. I almost thought the worst that would happen was Thomas getting beaten up, but noooo. I heard something about Dan leaving the show, but I thought maybe I read wrong or it was just a rumor. Nope. Dangit Dan!!!
Jess
February 17, 2013 @ 11:16 pm
My first reaction to this season’s finale was anger. I did not understand how the creators of the show would not know how much tragedy was enough (allowing the death of Matthew). However, after realizing it was Dan Steven’s decision to leave my anger was directed elsewhere. I have been blown away by how brilliant this show has been up to this point, but I find it hard to think I will be tuning into season 4. The show has been ruined; There is no show without Mary and Matthew. Yes, it was sad that Sybil passed away. But Matthew? His character had already been through a serious accident due to the war.. and his death had to come right after Mary gave birth to their child?! I do not understand why Dan would want to leave a show that is doing so well! Shame on you Dan, shame. I am disgusted. I apologize if my comments seem a bit extreme, but I had connected with this show and looked forward to new episodes constantly.
K.
February 17, 2013 @ 11:15 pm
No one can replace Matthew! He is part of Downton. Way to let your fans downs. Don’t kill off any more charactors! All are awesome! Bring him back for season four and have him have been in the hospital, not dead. Just hoping…
michele
February 17, 2013 @ 11:13 pm
Just reading the comments and I am not surprised at the reaction to the death of the character of Mathew. I have enjoyed this series very much and was disturbed by the story line involving the death of Sybil but this goes too far. I will not continue with the series, I know that this is fiction and just a story and perhaps it is a case of being done too well because this will disturb me for a few days. Won’t allow it so I am another who will not be following the program in future.
Anonymous
February 17, 2013 @ 11:13 pm
It was a silly ending- a car accident. Killing Matthew off could have been done in any of a number of more meaningful ways. This way showed disrespect for the viewers. Oh, just flip the car over, why don’t you, so we can all go home.
Sandie
February 17, 2013 @ 11:12 pm
I am considering not watching anymore. It is just too much sadness. In reality, a family would be hard pressed to recover from so much loss, very disappointed.
Judy M.
February 17, 2013 @ 11:12 pm
I am glad to know I am not the only soured fan. Sybil was one thing, but Matthew gone? That’s just bad writing. I understand Dan Stevens wanted to go. Fine, let him. But don’t kill off the character! You mean to tell me there is no actor whatsoever that could have played the part?! Granted, it would not have been ideal, but it would have made for a better story!
terry-fred lynn
February 17, 2013 @ 11:10 pm
I am totally sadden at the lost of Matthew. Matthew’s character offered the much needed balance between the classes. I must watch season 4. I am interesting in experiencing how DA bounces back from this. Maybe he’ll change his mind and just end up in a comma or something-please don’t die.
Carin J-Kragler
February 17, 2013 @ 11:10 pm
Kind of mad at these actors for bailing…will still watch the show
Carrie R
February 17, 2013 @ 11:09 pm
Can the writer save this now?? Killing off two key characters is not good at all!
Sue
February 17, 2013 @ 11:08 pm
I’ll continue to watch. Dan Stevens will be missed, but he was only one character in the show. I think the characters to watch will be Edith and Tom. It’s sad, but one could hardly blame Stevens for wishing to advance his career. My daughter and I have enjoyed the series very mush and look forward to Season 4.
Greta
February 17, 2013 @ 11:07 pm
I hate Downton Abbey as of now & I would be foolish to watch Season 4. I feel like a fool for getting hooked in the first place.
Mostly I hate Dan Stevens. What a selfish jerk. I shall make it my mission to purposely avoid putting any future royalty money in his pocket.
Can you tell I am a bit angry?
Larry
February 17, 2013 @ 11:06 pm
My wife and I were terribly disappointed by the ending. I was certain that Julian Fellowes truly blew it, until reading of Stevens’ decision to leave. Yet the damage may be irreversible. Another twist in a story with too many already.
Nancy
February 17, 2013 @ 11:05 pm
As long as Lady Violet lives I will watch Downton Abbey.
Anna Zapp
February 17, 2013 @ 11:05 pm
DREADFUL ENDING!!! SOOOOO SAD! I’m done watching. You can only
break our hearts so much and this was just too much! Unless Dan Stevens
comes back, I’m DONE! Life is tragic and sad enough. Why can’t we get a
little happiness out of this show? Bye Downton Abbey. Great visiting you.
Sheila
February 17, 2013 @ 11:02 pm
Just watched the Season 3 finale and I am heartbroken … they can’t have Matthew gone … the producers need to give Dan a huge incentive to come back!
Alfred Nida
February 17, 2013 @ 11:02 pm
I just started watching the series this year. I have surprised myself at how much I have enjoyed it. Mathew’s character was one of my favorites. I am truly upset and angry with the way this season has ended. One major character dying this season was enough. The show finally seemed to be moving back to happiness for the family and then this?! I’m sorry but I feel this was wrong and it sadened me so much I may not be watching season 4.
Katie
February 17, 2013 @ 10:58 pm
I’m not going anywhere. This show has connected my sisters, my mother and I together in a way that no other form of pop culture has. We will definitely be watching next season.
UP
February 17, 2013 @ 10:55 pm
I will be hard pressed to watch season 4. No Matthew and Mary together = no show. And Shirley Maclaine back…well, she was wretched in it! I’ll watch it, but the 1st episode had better be AWESOME…and Julian might want to take a page from Pam Ewing’s dream!
marg o
February 17, 2013 @ 10:55 pm
Can’t believe they’ve killed off Matthew after Sybil was lost……so hooked on DA, and this really sucked!!!
Bridget
February 17, 2013 @ 10:53 pm
Such a ridiculous ending. Sorry to say it, but I am done with Downton.
beth bridges
February 17, 2013 @ 10:52 pm
The show just shot itself in the foot
Cindy
February 17, 2013 @ 10:52 pm
Just watched end of season III – – won’t return for season IV. Don’t think they can make work with Sybil AND Matthew gone. Pretty sad.
Rebecca Dexter
February 17, 2013 @ 10:49 pm
I totally agree…will no longer watch it…too much like a soap opera
Jim McCullough
February 17, 2013 @ 10:40 pm
The show has ruined itself. Will no longer watch it.