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	Comments on: &#8216;The Bachelorette&#8217; spoilers: Drew Kenney shocks Desiree Hartsock; Brooks Forester freaks out	</title>
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		By: Shelly Leit		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2013 02:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think something else is going on with him, maybe he&#039;s a drug addict and has to go into rehab.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think something else is going on with him, maybe he&#8217;s a drug addict and has to go into rehab.</p>
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		By: enal		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[enal]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jul 2013 14:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Right from the beginning of the show, I didn&#039;t believe Drew at all.  Drew is so full of self deception, and as sweet as Des is, she is also naive, believing every sincerity card that Drew plays, which may reveal her own tendency toward self deception -- not uncommon when a person is trying to distance themselves from a past or childhood they feel ashamed of in some way.  So, yes, I think sincerity is Drew&#039;s mask.  When he so vehemently put his cape on to be the good guy, helping to &quot;oust&quot; the bad guys on the show, I knew he wasn&#039;t trustworthy.  It&#039;s one thing to tell it like it is, which is mature, but entirely another thing to make it your own personal crusade, which is very emotionally immature.  It&#039;s true that Des has had her share of cads on the show, but they were pretty typical guys, sad to say, primarily concerned with self interest.  However, the only guy that I thought was a real concern was Ben, who definitely exhibited signs of a more challenging, irreversible type of narcissism than your average garden variety narcissist.  In fact, right after Ben got out of the limo, I think Des should have seen right through him but she didn&#039;t, which was disappointing.  Ben used his son to charm Des,  brought the poor kid out of the limo in the first five minutes of the show.  You don&#039;t use your children to try and make yourself look like a great guy.  I think he figured himself the next Jason Mesnick but Jason would never have done that to his son.  Ben showed exactly his true colors in the limo ride home.  &quot;Hollywood,&quot; he cried.  Yes, therein lied his true intentions.  The rest of the guys, more or less, had reasonable intentions, while ALL knowing the possible future opportunities for them.  C&#039;mon!  Is it gauche to talk about it?  Of course.  But not deserving of the inflamed intensity Drew made over it.  Over all, it&#039;s interesting to note that I&#039;ve never seen such a group of polarized men on the Bachelorette before; it&#039;s been a bevy of extremes:   the overly testosterone fueled biceps of guys like Mikey, James and Bryden juxtaposed by emo guys such as Drew and Kasey [both very whiny], as well as Brooks, though I really like Brooks somehow but wonder what he might be hiding.  I just don&#039;t think most people in their 20&#039;s are all that self aware, and men even less so than women.  Michael G. really did seem to have potential, but then the limo ride home tells us everything we need to know, and when a contestant goes home saying &quot;How come I always get dumped...get my heart broken...&quot; etc., you realize the person has serious self esteem issues that no one can solve.  Probably, Des sent home most of the guys who were better possibilities for a relationships, and of the ones remaining, Chris and Zak are the two that I think would really be available and open.  But somehow, I don&#039;t think Des will pick the the available guys who want her.  I believe she believes she wants the happy ending, but I seriously doubt her true readiness for a real relationship.  I think Des is a career girl.  She is pure ambition tied up in a pretty &quot;aw shucks&quot; bow, and I think we&#039;ll find her, in the future, single and busy working, probably in some entertainment capacity such as hosting or corresponding for shows, fashion probably.  The Bachelorette is her stepping stone, ironically!  On her future date card?  Probably a Hollywood hottie.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right from the beginning of the show, I didn&#8217;t believe Drew at all.  Drew is so full of self deception, and as sweet as Des is, she is also naive, believing every sincerity card that Drew plays, which may reveal her own tendency toward self deception &#8212; not uncommon when a person is trying to distance themselves from a past or childhood they feel ashamed of in some way.  So, yes, I think sincerity is Drew&#8217;s mask.  When he so vehemently put his cape on to be the good guy, helping to &#8220;oust&#8221; the bad guys on the show, I knew he wasn&#8217;t trustworthy.  It&#8217;s one thing to tell it like it is, which is mature, but entirely another thing to make it your own personal crusade, which is very emotionally immature.  It&#8217;s true that Des has had her share of cads on the show, but they were pretty typical guys, sad to say, primarily concerned with self interest.  However, the only guy that I thought was a real concern was Ben, who definitely exhibited signs of a more challenging, irreversible type of narcissism than your average garden variety narcissist.  In fact, right after Ben got out of the limo, I think Des should have seen right through him but she didn&#8217;t, which was disappointing.  Ben used his son to charm Des,  brought the poor kid out of the limo in the first five minutes of the show.  You don&#8217;t use your children to try and make yourself look like a great guy.  I think he figured himself the next Jason Mesnick but Jason would never have done that to his son.  Ben showed exactly his true colors in the limo ride home.  &#8220;Hollywood,&#8221; he cried.  Yes, therein lied his true intentions.  The rest of the guys, more or less, had reasonable intentions, while ALL knowing the possible future opportunities for them.  C&#8217;mon!  Is it gauche to talk about it?  Of course.  But not deserving of the inflamed intensity Drew made over it.  Over all, it&#8217;s interesting to note that I&#8217;ve never seen such a group of polarized men on the Bachelorette before; it&#8217;s been a bevy of extremes:   the overly testosterone fueled biceps of guys like Mikey, James and Bryden juxtaposed by emo guys such as Drew and Kasey [both very whiny], as well as Brooks, though I really like Brooks somehow but wonder what he might be hiding.  I just don&#8217;t think most people in their 20&#8217;s are all that self aware, and men even less so than women.  Michael G. really did seem to have potential, but then the limo ride home tells us everything we need to know, and when a contestant goes home saying &#8220;How come I always get dumped&#8230;get my heart broken&#8230;&#8221; etc., you realize the person has serious self esteem issues that no one can solve.  Probably, Des sent home most of the guys who were better possibilities for a relationships, and of the ones remaining, Chris and Zak are the two that I think would really be available and open.  But somehow, I don&#8217;t think Des will pick the the available guys who want her.  I believe she believes she wants the happy ending, but I seriously doubt her true readiness for a real relationship.  I think Des is a career girl.  She is pure ambition tied up in a pretty &#8220;aw shucks&#8221; bow, and I think we&#8217;ll find her, in the future, single and busy working, probably in some entertainment capacity such as hosting or corresponding for shows, fashion probably.  The Bachelorette is her stepping stone, ironically!  On her future date card?  Probably a Hollywood hottie.</p>
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		By: AlexH		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[AlexH]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2013 17:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think Drew has to leave potentially because his father is suffering from cancer and probably had some complications.  Also, when these shows get further along, contestants become pouty and threaten to leave because they feel they are falling behind the other contestants.  If I was to guess he is frustrated at that point in the show and threatens to leave to go see his dad (although it is something not very serious), then big drama happens and then he will decide to stay by the end of the same episode. And it will make &quot;Bachelor History&quot;.....oh wait that line has been used a few hundred times already.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Drew has to leave potentially because his father is suffering from cancer and probably had some complications.  Also, when these shows get further along, contestants become pouty and threaten to leave because they feel they are falling behind the other contestants.  If I was to guess he is frustrated at that point in the show and threatens to leave to go see his dad (although it is something not very serious), then big drama happens and then he will decide to stay by the end of the same episode. And it will make &#8220;Bachelor History&#8221;&#8230;..oh wait that line has been used a few hundred times already.</p>
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		By: Ryann H		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ryann H]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2013 16:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I completely agree that he will reveal himself because he is kinda girly... I think he is super good looking but goodness his voice sounds like my sister! I hope she ends up with Brooks or Chris bc you can tell that they would be good for her and Brooks is hilarious. I would love to see them end up together!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree that he will reveal himself because he is kinda girly&#8230; I think he is super good looking but goodness his voice sounds like my sister! I hope she ends up with Brooks or Chris bc you can tell that they would be good for her and Brooks is hilarious. I would love to see them end up together!</p>
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		By: Dee		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dee]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jul 2013 21:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think Drew reveals that he was in love with Kasey and that he needs to leave the show to be with him...those two had a strange bromance going on...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Drew reveals that he was in love with Kasey and that he needs to leave the show to be with him&#8230;those two had a strange bromance going on&#8230;</p>
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		By: Payton		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Payton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jul 2013 14:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[What? No! Drew cant just leave...this cant be true because literally he just said that he falls in love with her more and more each day...and then he says it cant work? I dont think this is true gosh i hope not. Maybe this is just things he said while talking about something or someone else we all know that the coming attractions have to look extremely dramatic.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What? No! Drew cant just leave&#8230;this cant be true because literally he just said that he falls in love with her more and more each day&#8230;and then he says it cant work? I dont think this is true gosh i hope not. Maybe this is just things he said while talking about something or someone else we all know that the coming attractions have to look extremely dramatic.</p>
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		By: confused		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jul 2013 05:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Liked Drew right from the start, probably because he reminds me of my first love. I had no idea that he was a Ford model, but how could he not be with those chiseled good looks? I also knew that he had swept Desiree right off her feet with that first passionate kiss, in much the same fashion as my first love did with me, and if anyone could break Desiree&#039;s heart it would be Drew. I hope not because I picked him as the last man standing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liked Drew right from the start, probably because he reminds me of my first love. I had no idea that he was a Ford model, but how could he not be with those chiseled good looks? I also knew that he had swept Desiree right off her feet with that first passionate kiss, in much the same fashion as my first love did with me, and if anyone could break Desiree&#8217;s heart it would be Drew. I hope not because I picked him as the last man standing.</p>
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		By: kellijo84		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kellijo84]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jul 2013 04:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Would be sad if Drew leaves like that. Mmm he looks like Captain America! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Would be sad if Drew leaves like that. Mmm he looks like Captain America! </p>
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		By: Blythe		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Blythe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jul 2013 02:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have a feeling Drew will reveal that he is gay.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a feeling Drew will reveal that he is gay.</p>
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